Why would you get your birth chart done by an astrologer when you can just read your horoscope for free? I LOVE this question! You know how sometimes you think to yourself what the hell is going on, why do I feel so weird today? You take stock of all the possibilities… you ate breakfast, you took your multivitamin… hell, you even had a healthy dinner last night. Nonetheless, everything is all out of sorts. So then you pop online or flip to the horoscope page in your favourite newspaper or magazine so that you can possibly bring some sense to an otherwise whacked out situation. Only when you start reading your horoscope, you read something that was clearly written for someone else and not you. Because obviously that so-called horoscope was written by someone who had another person in mind. It’s not a great day for love, no you didn’t get a raise and dammit you still just feel weird. And then… there are those times when you read the horoscope and you nearly stop breathing for a second because it's so dead-on it’s freaky. The problem is you just never really know if it’s going to be right… wrong or somewhere in between. The fact is, pretty much all horoscopes you read, no matter how good the astrologer is that wrote it, it is written for one-twelfth of the population. These back of the magazine horoscopes are calculated for a whole entire sun sign rather than for you as an individual with your specific and unique birth data. Taaah Daaahhh now you know the reason!!! Your birth chart is as unique as you are. Even if a person is born on the same day at the same hour, if they are born even 20 miles away this will place differences in the chart of them and you. So what is the point? What can you get from your birth (natal chart) that is going to be any more helpful than reading your daily, weekly or monthly horoscope? Glad you asked. In the simplest terms, you were born with a purpose, drives, fears, parental relationships, siblings, children, psychological patterns, your soul's karmic path and more and it can all be visualized in your natal chart. Your natal chart works kind of like a map and a personal profile all at the same time. Different symbols are used to indicate where and what kinds of influences you have working in your present and toward your future. Basically, astrology is the study of the soul and its evolution using the language of the stars. 1. Your birth chart will definitively show your unique strengths and weaknesses... and then how to leverage or heal them! Essentially, a comprehensive analysis of your natal chart will help you understand your innate talents, but also where you have to work a little harder to get the results you want. It’s like having a cheat sheet for your own life! Every person has strengths... but sometimes you might not be aware of them or better yet, where to apply them to the greatest effect. Like, you might know you are a great writer... but maybe you don't know that your writing talents might bring you a lot of fame or fortune if you start to write about cooking. As far as weaknesses are concerned, you have them, you are probably aware of may of them, but wouldn't it be nice if you knew how to transform them? Like if you know your not a strong baseball player, wouldn't it be great to know you can turn that weakness into a strength by coaching instead of playing? 2. Your Natal Chart is a POWERFUL tool for finding the best career choice. I think for many of us there is a point in time (or in my case several) where you wonder if you are on the right career path. For me, without a doubt, my natal chart was the difference between doing what I love and settling for what I thought I HAD to do. True story - when I saw that my natal chart described my ideal job with all the things I loved doing most in detail... I nearly spit out my tea! My Birth chart literally spelled it all out for me! I wasn’t meant to sit at a desk or ring-up groceries, I was meant to read the stars and help others find their purpose! Needless to say ever since that moment, I put all of my energy into North Star Mystic and haven’t looked back. I’m now my own boss… FULL TIME! WOOOO! 3. Your birth chart will show you that you are more than just a one trick pony! You probably have already figured out that you have more than one side. You act one way in public and maybe another way when you are comfortable at home. Your natal chart explains this as easily as water rolling off a duck. You know how you hear things like Scorpios and Leo’s just don’t get along only to discover that you are a Leo and your life long best friend is a Scorpio? Then you wonder… who the hell came up with that rule? To put it simply, it’s because you are waaaaay more than just your sun sign! You have several facets to your personality and your natal chart shows you just how that plays out. Your big 3… Your rising sign, your sun sign and your moon sign all describe different elements of your personality… and you need to know! 4. Your birth chart explains how planetary placements, alignments and positions affect YOUR ENERGY and personality. Ok, so you have no doubt heard about Mercury retrograde, or even the moon being full in some sign or other. Have you ever wondered just how much these things really affect you? This is where your Natal chart really shines. When you see your birth chart and discover what influences the planets in our solar system have given you, you will start to truly understand your own nature. Just like the moon affects our tides, animals, weather and even people, each of the planets gives their own special influence that affects you on a deeply personal level. Want to know what pisses you off or inspires action - look at your Mars placement. Wonder how other people perceive or see you? Look at your Ascending sign. Want to figure out what your supposed to be learning in this life? Look at your Lunar Nodes! It's all there and more! 5.Your birth chart reveals what karmic lessons you need to learn in this life. There are just somethings that need more explanation then that's just the way the cookie crumbles… or that was the hand you were dealt, so grin and bear it. You came into this life with lessons you are meant to learn and you are presented with experiences that will help you to learn them. However, even if you know that sometimes you can still feel very confused as to what the lessons are for. Why certain things have happened in your life or even why particular patterns seem to show up over and over again. Your birth chart very clearly shows you what those lessons are and also what you can do to make them easier. 6. Without a doubt, Astrology is the most complete way to reveal who you truly are, who you're intended to become… and how to do it! This is where you see just how powerful Astrology really is. So far in my career, I have worked with people from every walk of life. I have been fortunate enough to work with people who make millions of dollars every year, getting to look at their natal charts and what is in them that makes them different. I have worked with people who have seemingly ordinary lives on the outside only to discover that the have some very unusual talents. Of all the people I have worked with the ones that make my heart beat a little faster are the charts that I get to read for people who have an AH-HA! Moment. It’s so exciting to sit with a client who is feeling confused or a little afraid to embrace who they truly are and go for what they want in life. Your Natal chart can offer you not just affirmation, but in many ways PERMISSION to pursue your true self and the dreams that go with it. This is why I do what I do… nothing gives me more joy than empowering a person to be who they are intended to be! 7. Your birth chart can improve your relationships Imagine if you knew what makes your spouse, child, parent, pet, boss or friend tick? How good would it be to finally understand why they are the way they are?! A natal chart is an unparalleled tool for getting a clearer understanding of yourself and the people & even pets you love most. I personally have used my whole family birth charts to make our home life soooo much more manageable. I understand why my brilliant 17-year-old daughter is so very timid even though she is incredibly artistically talented (she has a rare Pisces rising) I discovered that my son is very sensitive and is happiest at home with his family (Cancer Ascendant) … which help me to stop worrying about him socially. There are more ways and reasons than I can easily give you to see just how much astrology can improve your relationships, parenting and even social life. At the risk of going overboard, I would venture to say that the ways you can benefit from having a personal birth chart are nearly limitless. It was Johannes Kepler who said, “The soul of the newly born baby is marked for life by the pattern of the stars at the moment it comes into the world, unconsciously remembers it, and remains sensitive to the return of configurations of a similar kind.” and I think that sums up all the reasons you need to take advantage of your own personal users manual. If you are ready to uncover your purpose and live it more consciously click here to book a natal chart reading. Option 1: The chart only option in this you receive ... a fully interpreted report, this includes your birth chart and a delineation of all your planetary placements, house cusps and lunar nodes, aspects, Chiron & Dark Moon Lilith delivered to you in a beautifully designed PDF which I write. ☆☆☆ $79 CAD ☆☆☆ Option 2: A 120 min one-to-one reading in person, over the phone or by video. You get all the above plus a 2 hr reading with me 😊 where I go over everything in your birth chart point for point and you can ask questions while getting really in-depth insights. This is a perfect reading for those Mystics who really want to get down to the nitty-gritty. ☆☆☆ $$155 CAD ☆☆☆ All I need is to create your chart is the date, time and location of your birth. From that information, I will create your natal chart and provide everything you need to fully understand what the stars say about you. Thank you for reading! Love ♡♡♡ Alysa Bartha

I don't know about you but for me there is something inviting about the calmness of a quiet night. You know, the ind where the loudest noises you hear are the crickets singing, the breeze through the trees, your own thoughts and your heart beat. Those are the dark nights where the only thing to light the sky are the stars and planets that dot the blackness like innumerable offers of potential. In those nights there is something scared at work. The deep magic that every living being is tethered to, in the same way that a mother is tied to her child, is felt as a subtle resonant awareness. The infinite umbilicus of akashik memory ties everything that ever was to everything that ever will be, and you are in the center of it. On September 28th we are all invited into that dark night as the New Moon takes dominion over the skies. The new moon happens each month when the sun and moon have the same ecliptic longitude, in other words they are arranged in just such a way that the Earth casts her shadow upon the moon, darkening Gaia and allowing us to take an inward journey. If you have ever wondered, the New Moon is just as important and profound as the Full Moon. It is the subconscious or instinctual invitation to begin something new, a primordial effort to direct your path consciously by communing with the subconscious. It is the darkness of the New Moon that reveals what is normally the subtext to the conscious narrative that motivates your actions. As the New Moon visits the sign of Libra your inner most thoughts will turn to defining and understanding the true nature of your partnerships. The key to using the energy of this specific new moon is to find that sense of inner balance within your relationships. Because Libra rules partnerships, you are likely to feel particularly sensitive to the connections you have with other people, especially your closest relationships. You may want to look at just how you see yourself and feel about yourself relative to the ones you are nearest to your heart. You should take time to check what you are contributing to your partnerships, ask yourself if you are giving enough to your relationship, or if in fact you have been self centred, or sometimes even narrow minded. If you have been accused of being too impulsive or even insensitive there is an easy fix for that... hiding under your bed. Ok maybe not. What I would recommend is taking a look within. As hard as it is, you should examine your emotions, do your best to use your intellect and see if in fact there are areas where you may lack in lack objectivity and perspective. In this case being critical will work to your advantage. Don't worry, if you realize that maybe your dark side has been hanging out, it happens to us all. Just tuck it back in where it belongs, and work on keeping it under control. Nothing undermines your personal happiness more than when a person's dark side is dragging around behind them out in public. New Moon in Libra Practice for Healing Your Relationship Now I wouldn't leave you to battle out these vibes all on your own! Because I love you I'm going to offer you a practice you can use to clear out the old gunk of the last month and bring in some new energy for the next Lunar phase. You're gonna need a few goodies to help to enhance the potency of your intentions. Get the following crystals: Rose Quartz- For universal kindness and unconditional love Clear Quartz - to magnify your intentions Red Jasper - To help keep you grounded Selenite - For cleansing and purification Black Tourmaline - For protection Hematite for reflecting negative & destructive energies. Loose Herbs: Sage - For purification Lavender - For inviting in balance, loving energy and spirits Rosemary - For Healing and Clarity Cinnamon - For protection Bowl or shell for burning Glass of water Paper Pen Candles: Pink candle Black candle White Candle Now, onto setting your intentions for the next cycle: Choose a time when you will be alone and you can quietly reflect on your relationship or partnership. You may choose to do this indoor our outdoor, either is fine, just be somewhere where you can focus. Take your candles and place them on a fire/ heat proof surface Arrange your crystals around the candles in whatever way you like best Carefully light your candles Take one part of each of the herbs (about a pinch) and mix them evenly. Place herbal mix in the bowl Light the herbal mix with a match or a lighter... let the herbal mix smoulder Write down your intentions for what you would like invite into your relationship on the paper As you hold this sacred space drink the water you have, thinking or meditating on what you would like in your closest relationships. When you have finished drinking your water blow out your candles. Then place your folded paper with your intentions under your crystals and place all of the items somewhere you will see them. This completes the practice. The inset chart is for the New Moon In Libra Sept. 28, 2019 The Moon will start it's journey through its New Moon Phase in the sign of Libra in the 12th house. If you are curious about your natal moon, and what house your moon is in, please visit the services category by clicking here to book a 1 to 1 natal chart consult or order your personal horoscope. If you enjoyed this please subscribe or become a site member! Alysa Is a second generation traditional western astrologer specializing in Natal, synastry & Business astrology. She is also a Tarot veteran, a practicing practicing mystic offering Astrology, Tarot, Holistic Healing and many other mystical modalities from her Hillsburgh, Ontario offices. Known as The North Star Mystic, Alysa is passionate about all thing esoteric, metaphysical and spiritual. For more information or how to book a service or session visit www.NorthStarMystic.com

Hey Mystic, Not sure if you have noticed but the world seems to be spiraling... but is it spiraling in or out of control? That is the question. Let me shed some light on why..... You don't have to be an astrologer to see that something is changing.. something big! For starters, on a personal level you may have found yourself feeling rather overwhelmed with all the intense energy over the last 5 months, courtesy of Pluto in retrograde. It has likely felt as though you have had to make some major decisions about the direction your life is taking. You have had to look at your belief structures and strip away every scrap of illusion, facing the harsh facts of what works... and what you have to dissolve. This may have sent you into a bit of a crisis, maybe even a sense that something is dying off. Well, sorry (NOT SORRY) to say it, but you are not wrong. Something is dying off... the old you. You are in the midst of a transformation, you have been in the crucible of change, becoming refined through pain and fire. Cue dramatic music... cause it's dramatic! However, those changes aren't limited to you... oh no honey, you aren't alone in this glorious sea of misery! Nope, you have the whole world for company! Wait, what?! Alysa, you mean I'm not alone in this shit?! No, no you're not! Basically over the last 5 months we all have been enjoying the rumbling, grinding, persistent, evolve or die kind of vibes. It's been intense, and we are all being forced to eliminate what is unsustainable... especially as it concerns our individual as well as collective thinking. You me and everyone you know has been having a subconscious existential crisis of sorts. Depending on where Pluto has been transiting your chart this retrograde you will know where your personal philosophies, beliefs and sense of power are being challenged. That's what Pluto does, it upsets your apple cart, forcing you to swim or ... well, drown. I'm confident more than a few of you have quit jobs, marriages, moved out or gone into some form of self imposed isolation when April, brought spring and Pluto into it's backward dance across the sky. Not just on a personal level, but on a global level we are seeing major, major shifts. World leaders are being called to task in front of a watching world, all of their dirty deeds are being uncovered and their hidden agendas coming to light. Take for instance the current sitting president of the united states. Since 2016 people all over the world have been polarized by his actions, tweets, values and more than anything, his promises to change the way that the U.S. operates as a nation and as a people. Normally I avoid talking politics like most people avoid wiping their nether bits with poison ivy - yes, I find it that detestable. But, in this case I feel it is necessary to point out the most interesting effect that our current astrological weather has on the very fabric of our reality. After nearly four years of tweets that echo the rhetoric of a fully unhinged toddler and the tantrums to match, we are seeing The Wall that Trump has built around himself beginning to crumble. Bullshit brick, by bullying bullshit brick, Trump's wall of bigotry, sexism, racism, xenophobia, and elitism is falling apart under the weight of his own blind megalomania. In other words, people are like seriously done with his shit. When even those in the party of opposition (democrats) who have up until recently subverted or avoided ousting a former reality T.V. bully are now giving way to the cries of a disenfranchised nation with the announcement of the impeachment process about to begin... you know shit is going down - BIG! This my dear mystic, is Pluto coming out of retrograde and going direct! Pluto FORCES transformation. Now, what's even more interesting is that when Pluto Stations direct, it will be in the sign of Capricorn in the 9th house, you will see even more changes and revelations in the coming months. So let me break it down for you. PLUTO STATIONS DIRECT IN THE 9TH HOUSE IN THE SIGN OF CAPRICORN Inspires a powerful drive to discover higher meanings in life, we are no longer satisfied with the unsustainable ways that government, society and our environment have been being handled. We are both collectively and individually transforming into a higher octave of conscious expression. Like, even Bernie Sanders is proposing a "Wealth Tax" that would cut billionaire's fortunes nearly in half! “Which would substantially break up the concentration of wealth and power of this small privileged class.” (Totally a Pluto move.) None the less we must be cautious that our thirst for justice and order don't become dogmatic as we seek to develop new more egalitarian philosophies. Additionally as this shift crystallizes, it is important to be aware that Pluto takes around 248 years to make a complete cycle, spending 12 to 32 years in each sign. Which is why we are likely to see a significant change in world government. As you can see my dear Mystic, this is an era of intense changes as it concerns everything we believe in. Nothing is left untouched by this energy. But, there is a light at the end of the tunnel and the good news is it isn't the train. Before every great transformation there is destruction. The archetype of the phoenix teaches you this. The beautiful bird is born of ashes, grows into a magnificent bird and then burns brightly, consumed by the heat of its own flames; only to endlessly cycle through birth, death and regeneration. In much the same way, we as human beings do this on a personal level as well as a collectively and each time we are brought to critical mass, destruction and finally a new paradigm in which we may act out the Divine plan again and again. Pluto stations direct on October 3rd 2019 in Capricorn and remain so until April 25th, 2020 when it enters retrograde once again until stationing direct on October 4th, 2020 in Capricorn. Thank you for reading! If you would like to know where Pluto rests in your Natal chart and how it's energy helps you to transform, please click here. Alysa Is a second generation traditional western astrologer specializing in Natal, synastry & Business astrology. She is also a Tarot veteran, practicing, Astrology, Tarot, Holistic Healing and many other mystical modalities from her Hillsburgh, Ontario offices. Known as The North Star Mystic, Alysa is passionate about all thing esoteric, metaphysical and spiritual. For more information or how to book a service or session visit www.NorthStarMystic.com

So, my Reiki journey began with a back ache… ok maybe back ache is a little bit of an understatement. Somehow or another I had managed to pull my back muscles so badly that they went into a full scale revolt and refused to support me in a standing or sitting position. I was concerned enough with the pain that I went to my doctor hoping to be given some insight that would provide some directions as to how I might find some relief. Sadly the best the doctor could offer was a round of muscle relaxers and a suggestion to stay off my feet. Um yeah duhhh. Needless to say I hobbled my ass out of that office no better for my visit. I spent the next three or so days in intermittent states of agony and sleep with no relief in between. Then on the third day a friend who at that time was a skilled healer called me on the phone. She said that she had been thinking about me a lot. Hearing my thin pain filled voice she of course asked if I was ok. I responded with a nope… feeling pretty rough. She then told me that she would be in town and asked if I would like her to stop by and give me some reiki. I gave her a yes - a skeptical yes, so she agreed to stop in. So here is where I tell you that all my previous experiences with reiki were nothing short of disappointing. I had encountered reiki healers before, all of which touting the miraculousness of reiki and how it could heal so many things. But to be honest with you not a single solitary one of them were able to convince me of the miracle of reiki. Far as I was concerned, it just seemed to be an imaginary routine that people did to make themselves feel as if they had control over their circumstances. Turns out my limited experience led me to have a rather limited opinion. Funny how despariation can be the first step that puts you on the path to growth, expansion and a pain free lower back. As it goes, my friend ended up coming over and showing me the truth of just how powerful reiki can be. Inside of 20 or so minutes I went from being in pain and about as mobile as a rusty set of roller skates to feeling nearly normal. The whole experience was something that was unexpected. The healing was simple and gentle. As I lay on my bed in pain waiting for nothing to happen, I gradually became aware of a sensation that I didn’t expect. If you have ever held your fingers in a stream letting the weight of the water press between your fingers, just enough that you feel the resistance of the water, that’s what I felt. I was surprised to say the least. I didn’t expect to “FEEL” anything let alone an actual physical sensation. I don’t know how long the treatment lasted, I didn’t even understand how it could work so fast and so easily… but it did. After I was able to stand up for the first time in like 3 days without feeling like I was gonna die, I knew I had to learn how to do this jedi magic, voodoo, sorcery. I have always been motivated by curiosity and in this case my interest was more than just a little piqued. Buuuut, I didn’t seek training right away. Two years after the experience I just shared I went on to earn my first degree in reiki and followed it up a few months later with the second degree. Over the next few years I learned so very much through the practice of treating others with reiki. I learned that healing is something that takes place on more than just the physical level. I also learned that everyone’s experience with reiki is unique and intimate. I discovered that reiki doesn’t require you to believe it works in order for it to work. I learned that the reiki path is more than just a thing you learn when you are initiated with attunements, rather it becomes a way of seeing the world and engaging with it in a more aware and mindful way. People often ask me what reiki feels like when you’re channeling it. From my experience I feel the heat emanating from my hands and I will often get a tingling sensation. When I’m working with someone I will often get a “pulling” sensation that seems to gravitate my hands toward an area that needs extra attention. Sometimes, I can feel reiki tingling in my feet which is interesting to say the least. What is consistent is that whenever I’m using reiki I feel something good; I feel connected to the source of all energy. It took me several years of practicing reiki before embarking on my master teachers path. I always feel deeply honored and connected to my reiki family, my lineage when I am able to teach others and when I practice healing others. The best part is while I hold space for that curative energy to pass through my body and into that of another, I get to receive healing as well. Not just as a byproduct of being in the healing energy conduit, but as an intention of the method of healing. The healer is healed. Reiki is for everyone. Anyone can learn. It is a system that allows healing to be given and received with energy that is available to us all with the benefit of not depleting one's own energy. To experience it Click Here To learn Click Here

New Moon July 31st 2019 Isn't it interesting how the New Moon always grabs our attention and imagination. I think it's because its a little bit spooky and magical when the night sky is the darkest but also when the stars are most visible. Astrology teaches us that when the face of the Moon is obscured by the shadow of the Earth there is a special kind of energy that influences our lives. The New Moon or sometimes called the Dark Moon symbolizes a time when you can begin to channel energy in a new direction or at least channel energy in the same direction in a new way for the next 28 days. However, you can direct or channel your energy in more targeted ways by knowing just how the energy of this New Moon will influence you. So to help you better direct your focus my dear Mystic, let me give you some pointers that will hopefully help you to surf those energetic waves. With Leo season is in full swing The July 31 new moon brings a Venus/ Moon conjunct which effectively spurs a realization that you are in need of a renovation in your love life and finances. Over the Next 4 weeks look over the details of your love life in the same way you would when preparing to write a review for your latest purchase. Be critical, but don’t be unkind. Look at what YOU bring to the relationship as well. Leo loves to be in charge, and because of this you will likely see an element of this need in the way emotions are felt and expressed. You may feel a bit more reactive or touchy during this period. You could even be feeling uncertain and as if there is an underlying tension between you and your lover that you just can’t put your finger on. This my dear Mystic is an open window of opportunity for things to get frustrating and complicated if you aren’t careful. My advice, take all that need for power and control that Leo wants and invest it in leadership rather than dominance. See what Leo wants us to do is to be the benevolent monarch. Leading with love, creativity and romance. However, if you aren’t feeling any of those things in your relationship, the shadow side of Leo will find a way to make an ugly ass appearance. That energy, when not expressed in a love vibration, becomes haughty, jealous and arrogant. It shows up in its archetypes shadow, pissing on the metaphorical screen door like an angry Tom cat instead of a purring kitty. So this is where you will want to exercise a new way of approaching vulnerability. Protect your feelings but make sure you give room for others to protect their own. Oh and to make things even more fun... the New Moon is also in square to Uranus which is the influence that brings uncertainty, tension and the potential for unexpected changes. This particular combination of aspects seems to affect people with a tendency toward impulsive reactions, rebellion, and aggression. In other words, expect moodiness and full diva mode activation. Patience and cooperation are absolutely vital to avoid relationship instability. If you start to feel stressed and anxious, slow down, meditate and listen intently to your intuition because it will help you to navigate the tricky waters that you might find yourself dead man floating in. Or come see me ;) In terms of finance, you will want to be extra careful when it comes to impulse spending. I don’t know if it is because of the need for retail therapy in response to the emotional dramas that are floating around, or if it is just the way this energy affects us. Either way, it is important to just choose wisely right now. You might do well to pull out the calculator and the books and see just where the money is coming and going. This will give you an opportunity to use that New Moon energy to approach old money habits with new strategies. Lastly, on a more intuitive level I would like to take a moment to offer one more little tidbit. I feel as though this Moon may bring some revelations. Something that has been hidden from you will be revealed. The funny thing is though, it is something that you have been feeling a long time and probably just been afraid to act upon because of feeling uncertain. As our Moon darkens and her face is hidden from our view, something else will become seen. Almost as though the darkness allows this thing to come out from the inky black shadows of secrecy and emerge into the light of truth. I’m not sure exactly what that looks like for you, but be prepared to be confronted with a deep truth that will catalyze a change… more like a determination. It’s like if you have had a choice you’ve been needing to make, this energy will help you to crystalize your conviction. You will be more comfortable, bold and empowered which will allow you to make this decision and stand behind it. Something just feels different and I think it will be easier for you to make your choice now then without the forthcoming revelation. That’s all for now my dear mystic. I hope this helps you and that it serves you well. Until next time Love, Alysa

New Moon July 31st 2019 Isn't it interesting how the New Moon always grabs our attention and imagination. I think it's because its a little bit spooky and magical when the night sky is the darkest but also when the stars are most visible. Astrology teaches us that when the face of the Moon is obscured by the shadow of the Earth there is a special kind of energy that influences our lives. The New Moon or sometimes called the Dark Moon symbolizes a time when you can begin to channel energy in a new direction or at least channel energy in the same direction in a new way for the next 28 days. However, you can direct or channel your energy in more targeted ways by knowing just how the energy of this New Moon will influence you. So to help you better direct your focus my dear Mystic, let me give you some pointers that will hopefully help you to surf those energetic waves. With Leo season is in full swing The July 31 new moon brings a Venus/ Moon conjunct which effectively spurs a realization that you are in need of a renovation in your love life and finances. Over the Next 4 weeks look over the details of your love life in the same way you would when preparing to write a review for your latest purchase. Be critical, but don’t be unkind. Look at what YOU bring to the relationship as well. Leo loves to be in charge, and because of this you will likely see an element of this need in the way emotions are felt and expressed. You may feel a bit more reactive or touchy during this period. You could even be feeling uncertain and as if there is an underlying tension between you and your lover that you just can’t put your finger on. This my dear Mystic is an open window of opportunity for things to get frustrating and complicated if you aren’t careful. My advice, take all that need for power and control that Leo wants and invest it in leadership rather than dominance. See what Leo wants us to do is to be the benevolent monarch. Leading with love, creativity and romance. However, if you aren’t feeling any of those things in your relationship, the shadow side of Leo will find a way to make an ugly ass appearance. That energy, when not expressed in a love vibration, becomes haughty, jealous and arrogant. It shows up in its archetypes shadow, pissing on the metaphorical screen door like an angry Tom cat instead of a purring kitty. So this is where you will want to exercise a new way of approaching vulnerability. Protect your feelings but make sure you give room for others to protect their own. Oh and to make things even more fun... the New Moon is also in square to Uranus which is the influence that brings uncertainty, tension and the potential for unexpected changes. This particular combination of aspects seems to affect people with a tendency toward impulsive reactions, rebellion, and aggression. In other words, expect moodiness and full diva mode activation. Patience and cooperation are absolutely vital to avoid relationship instability. If you start to feel stressed and anxious, slow down, meditate and listen intently to your intuition because it will help you to navigate the tricky waters that you might find yourself dead man floating in. Or come see me ;) In terms of finance, you will want to be extra careful when it comes to impulse spending. I don’t know if it is because of the need for retail therapy in response to the emotional dramas that are floating around, or if it is just the way this energy affects us. Either way, it is important to just choose wisely right now. You might do well to pull out the calculator and the books and see just where the money is coming and going. This will give you an opportunity to use that New Moon energy to approach old money habits with new strategies. Lastly, on a more intuitive level I would like to take a moment to offer one more little tidbit. I feel as though this Moon may bring some revelations. Something that has been hidden from you will be revealed. The funny thing is though, it is something that you have been feeling a long time and probably just been afraid to act upon because of feeling uncertain. As our Moon darkens and her face is hidden from our view, something else will become seen. Almost as though the darkness allows this thing to come out from the inky black shadows of secrecy and emerge into the light of truth. I’m not sure exactly what that looks like for you, but be prepared to be confronted with a deep truth that will catalyze a change… more like a determination. It’s like if you have had a choice you’ve been needing to make, this energy will help you to crystalize your conviction. You will be more comfortable, bold and empowered which will allow you to make this decision and stand behind it. Something just feels different and I think it will be easier for you to make your choice now then without the forthcoming revelation. That’s all for now my dear mystic. I hope this helps you and that it serves you well. Until next time Love, Alysa

Hey Mystic, I’ve been sitting here in my little house thinking about the nature of the universe, reality, conscious thought and how energy moves. I was contemplating the idea of being balanced… and if it is really something that I am or am not. I read a lot and hear even more about how other people are either feeling out of balance or how to find more of it in their lives. There is tons of advice about how and where to get more of it and how to tell when you are out of it. Discussions about how the world lacks it and how our happiness depends on it. The thought that I settled on is that there is this natural flux and flow of kinetic and inert forces that seems to be in lockstep with the great breath of creation. Forever contracting and releasing. Building up energy and then letting it go. I know we are always seeking balance. That is what we want, and moreover that’s what we are told we should continuously strive for. Like in some distant location there is this plateau where we come to rest and are content and totally satisfied, utterly balanced and completely centered. In my minds eye I imagine that this place of total balance is pure white, glistening with boredom and drenched in doldrums. There would be the bland aroma of complacency hanging in the still perfectly unstimulating air. I imagine that the sounds of perfectly balanced land would be stunningly non existent, leaving you feeling absolutely, flaccidly meh. (yes I said flaccidly) Doesn’t that just sound like the picture of bliss? See, I think much of the time we are chasing something that literally cannot exist and be compatible with human life. When we seek balance, what we are actually asking for is predictability. We want to know that we will be able to maintain a certain feeling or state of being. A sort of anticipation of the expected leads nearly every action we make. Fact is… everything changes. Now you heard my rant last month about everything changing all the time… hold on to your doughnuts, I’m about to take you a little further. So here is the reality of reality…. Or at least my perception of it anyway (disclaimer: which may change without notice.) Reality, is as you know all about duality. There are all the old trope examples of black and white, chocolate and vanilla or Stranger Things or Game of Throne. Ok that last one doesn’t count. The point is, that’s the stuff that is easy to talk about, compare and understand. In any case there is a bigger discussion we need to have… collectively. I want to talk about the idea that maybe it isn’t so simple as just the obvious and stark contrasts. Maybe there is something bigger happening. Maybe, the concept of balancing these forces is in some ways a waste of time. Maybe there is less to balance and more to accept. What? What the eff are you saying Alysa? Insert dramatic eye roll. Ha! Glad you asked. So here’s what I mean. The illusion is that things are out of balance. No, seriously think about it. Everything has to be in balance in order to even exist. I think it was Nicola Tesla that said “If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.” Take for example the act of walking. In order for locomotion to be possible we must disrupt balance. So taking the body from a state of apparent inertia into a state of imbalance creates walking. But the paradox lies in the fact that in order for the body to even walk it has to be balanced internally enough to know how to imbalance it’s respective parts in order to walk. All the muscles of your body are activated to shift and contract on one side and release tension on the other side. If your inner ear stops doing its job, which is detecting imbalances, you may not move or you may fall over. Either way the inner ear has to be in balance with your nervous system in order to facilitate walking. A perfectly beating heart must alternately squeeze and release so that blood can travel in and out of its precious chambers. The Balancing happens automatically. Ok so what about a heart attack? What about when I fall down? What about that Alysa, isn’t that a sign of imbalance? Huh?! Um… yeah...no! So here is where we depart Newtonian science and trip the light fantastic diving heart first into the nature of REALITY. When something unexpected happens, or when a system fails, or when we sense there is something off… that my darling is not a symptom of an imbalance. Rather, that is a sign that something is shifting, morphing, evolving, developing or changing. Because even when something is uncomfortable it is still in balance. Pain is a perfect example for this. If you cut your finger and your brains pain sensors light up and you yell ouch! Dammit! You have to be in a state of balance to even experience any of those things. There are a million examples of things that I can show you where balance exists in a way you can easily agree with. But what about those things that defy an easy explanation? What about people who do terrible things? What about when the Earth’s climate is changing,? What about poverty, illness and crime? How are those things in balance with anything? They aren’t. Those things pull us out of balance; but not without purpose. Opposition, challenges, difficulties, hard lessons all pull us out of balance. And truthfully they are supposed to, they have to or we as human beings become stagnant and inert. Remember the comparison walking? Your body has to push/ pull itself out of balance in order for walking (localmotion) to even be a thing. The paradox lies in the fact that we are never truly out of balance - nor are we ever truly in balance, we are perpetually in a state of being that is both and neither. I’m sure there is some kind of fancy esoteric or metaphysical term for this… I have no idea what it might be. However, what I do know is that we should all be a little easier on ourselves and each other. We should all be way more understanding and compassionate when we are chasing something you can never catch…. Because you can’t catch what you already have. So next time you are feeling out of balance with things, or even yourself, maybe consider that you are actually not doing so bad… after all you have noticed that something is off… and in order to do that- something must be turned on and working correctly… you know, balanced.

Hello Mystics, July begins with a total solar eclipse in 10° Cancer. What does this mean you ask? Well, in a turn toward the positive, this eclipse brings out the warm fuzzies in you especially where it concerns home and family. Cancer, which is ruled by the moon, opens an umbrella of nurturing energy that helps you to make peace where conflict was, and love where there may not have been quite enough. You might find that people will be a bit more open minded and ready to have those conversations that will restore the good vibes between all concerned. Just hang out, have a BBQ, listen to music and just enjoy spending time with the ones you love the most. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself feeling the urge to call, text or email everyone you know just how much you love the…. Go ahead, seriously it’s not that weird. I promise they will love it. After all no one dislikes being told they are loved and appreciated. Also, this Eclipse brings blessings in its wake. If you are just learning about Astronomy and not sure how all this works, let me explain. A solar eclipse is just like any regularly scheduled New Moon. That is to say that the Moon passes between Earth and the Sun causing it’s shadow to fall on the Earth while it over takes the Sun. But, the biggest difference is that a solar eclipse is more potent astrologically because the Moon completely darkens the Sun. Remember, in part, the moon represents our emotions, subconscious and of course change; and the Sun represents our core self, authority and of course the creative life force energy we are all endowed with. So, this solar eclipse on July 2nd, 2019 is a total solar eclipse so none of the Sun will be completely covered by the Moon. Which will then have the effect of motivating you to move past any fears you have been harbouring, You might feel a little more bold, excited and ready to start something new! Also, the new moon represents the end of one cycle and the beginning of a brand new cycle. Worth noting is that a new moon influence lasts for about four weeks but a solar eclipse lasts around six months, so be prepared to sit in its energy for a while. It really and truly is a good time to connect with your Momma as well, because Cancer and the Moon represent your Mother figure. Additionally, this eclipse also has the potential to gift many of us with good physical health. Honors and accolades at work or school and in some cases an increase in your finances. This is a great time for networking and getting together with like minded people. Use this potent energy to end old conflicts, disagreements and wash out the bad blood between you and someone you need to mend bridges with. A little heart centered negotiation will go a long way to make peace. For those of you who are entrepreneurial, this Total Solar Eclipse opens a HUGE window of opportunity for you. Now is the time to get into alignment with the things you love, work your ass off and have a little patients and watch your dreams begin to manifest. Arguably the strongest and most important aspect of astrology is Sun conjunct Moon. A Sun Moon Conjunction is when the Sun and the Moon are super close together. So close in fact that their combined energies create a third and distinct energy. The influence of this energy means that all potentials are on the table and you can consciously use this energy to activate your plans for the future. Also, you would do very well to clean out your emotional closet. Reflect, and really be critical of your old beliefs, habits and behaviors, eliminate whatever has kept you in a holding pattern and seek out new and inventive ways to make progress. Really my dear, this is really the best time to make a fresh start, orienting yourself toward achieving those goals you have been dreaming about. Along the way there might even be a few surprises… don’t worry, they will be of the positive and stimulating variety. Honestly this is one of those Eclipses that are worth looking forward to. The advice I would give you… even if it is unsolicited… is to just really enjoy this energy. There will be many opportunities through out the rest of 2019 to stress, worry or be upset, so why not take the time to just enjoy yourself and the people you love. Fix your gaze on the future and let all of the Eclipse energy inspire you in creating the life you want to live. And let me tell you, this is a much needed break from some of the rather heavy energy that comes with some of the retrograde planets that are currently doing their best to help us purge, eliminate and heal. So, I’ll just say it this way, an open mind and an open heart will serve you. Hard work, patients and creative thinking will supercharge your business endeavours. Spend time with your Momma if you can and work out any past hurts with friends and family because this Eclipse is on your side. P.S. Just in case you can’t find your keys or you seem to have to repeat yourself alot lately, we are in the shadow of our favorite communication convoluter. July 7th Mercury Stations Retrograde in Leo and then a few days later on July 16th we get a partial lunar eclipse in Capricorn. Weeeeee… let the summer fun begin! Thanks for reading Like and Share if you have enjoyed this. Until next time!

Change!… big changes ahead, new beginnings, growth! I don’t know about you but that seems to be the statement that comes with every new moon, quarter moon, full moon or angel number. There always seems to be a Tarot card, angel card or oracle card reading that promises a change… or a new astrological ingress (when a planet goes into a new sign) or aspect that also promises a monumental life altering event. Every time you turn around there is a promise of an energetic ascension, a dimensional shift or some kind of something that is going to take you out of where you are and transport you to where you wish to be… or at least get the ball rolling…. Or something, anything. So are you ready for my rant? I admit it! I’m annoyed by the thought that people are being let down or hurt by the promise of a positive change that never shows up. I feel bad that sometimes a person can be in a really bad spot in their lives and they read a post, or watch a vlog or live stream and be utterly deflated when the change they were promised doesn’t arrive in the aftermath of the new moon, full moon, pink sturgeon super moon or whatever they were promised. It drives me bonkers. The reason for these annoyed feelings my Mystic friend is because - EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING is ALWAYS changing!!! Everything is always in motion. Everything is consistently and constantly in a perpetual state of flux and flow. This is not only a law of the physical world but a law of the universe. But here is the kicker… apart from those rarified AH- Ha! moments and the sometimes abrupt events that are joyful like birth or traumatic like death - all change is incremental. If you truly look at it there isn’t much that happens without a gradual evolution. Most change happens in a gradient, shifting slowly and nearly imperceptibly, from one form and into another and we barely even notice. Where we start out is never where we end up and most of the time that evolution happens with teensy little shifts. A classic symbol of transformation is the butterfly, it teaches us that change comes for all of us and is inevitable. The butterfly shows us that the alteration of our singular reality is gonna happen and that ultimately it is for our highest good. However, the butterfly isn’t scrolling through social media reading a post or a meme that is promising a shift in it’s life that will improve it’s circumstance. It doesn’t have any bills to pay, a lover that it pines for, a sick or dying loved one. The butterfly isn’t longing for a humanity that is kinder, gentler and more compassionate. That little bug doesn’t ache for it’s fellow butterflies to see it and accept it as an indispensable part of a greater community. Nope, none of that. That little critter just goes along as it is designed to. It changes, metamorphosizes, and transforms within the flow of nature and creation. God, we can learn an awful lot from a bug. But here is the point of this little rant - I want to share with you an idea, one I have been cooking in my little head for awhile. When you think of change, be it in your circumstances or in your thoughts or feelings, what is the thing that lets you know that things are different? How does one know when a change has been achieved? How does one say - “Yep, shit’s different.” and know that they are the author of their new paradigm? The simple answer is by retrospective comparison. Looking at what was in the past and comparing it to what is in the present. But Alysa, what is the problem with using tools like astrology, the moon, or cards, or runes or any other method to anticipate when a change will happen and what it might entail… and posting it on social media? Not a damn thing! I just want folks to understand that they can catalyze or initiate change in their lives without needing to wait for a specific or esoteric thing to happen. A card pull, a transit, a meditation, a vision board, a lunation or any other means of attempting to capture the right energy to architect a change, is only a portion of the work that one must do. Even with the comprehension that we can use energy to enhance and influence the changes we want to make, it is important to understand that everything around us is specifically and purposefully calibrated to facilitate evolution. That is to say that there is nothing on this earth, in the solar system or within the living, vibrating, oscillating universe that doesn’t foster change. I wanted to talk about this because I’ve had a fairly significant number of people come to me saying something like they saw that we are shifting into 5d or that we are supposed to be ascending now that we are shifting into the age of Aquarius. Or that they are a light working, starseed, earth angel and that it is their job to activate the planet’s light grid and elevate humanity. Yet so many of these love filled beings feel frustrated and to some degree, feeling as though they are failing. So many people feel like they are doing something wrong, or worse, they are losing faith because they’ve done everything they thought they were supposed to do, yet the change that they wanted didn’t happen. No manifestation, transformation, ascension or elevation. The money didn’t show up, the loved one didn’t heal, the relationship is still fucked up. No dimensional shift or epic show of humanity’s much needed elevation in consciousness. All sounds pretty damn dark doesn’t it. That’s because it is. It is dark when time and time again you wish for something and it doesn’t show up. It’s only compounded by the fact that every single day you see or hear a special message that is supposed to empower or uplift you, yet you are still in the same shit you were the day before you saw the post. What I’m saying is that the environmental energy (things like lunar phases) are only one part of the formula. It’s true that environmental energy is a powerful catalyst for change, but ultimately it is important to understand that whatever is going to happen in life is always first initiated by your intention. In other words, if you want to change yourself, your circumstance or even the world it all begins with your desires. I fully believe that the universe conspires to help you fulfill every wish, want and as it aligns with your purpose in this lifetime, whether it is spoken or not. Equally we each come into this life with a purpose and a direction we are guided and encouraged to follow. Yet, the key factor in all of this is that each of us as sentient beings, are sovereign and are at liberty to choose how we proceed. Sometimes you can go against the grain of your purpose and sometimes you can go with it. The only way to truly know though is to feel your way. And, just because something isn’t showing up… or going away right when we need it to, doesn’t always mean something is wrong or that you aren’t doing the right thing. What is does mean is that perhaps you are experiencing things in the way that you are because it is to help you get into alignment with your purpose. Sometimes we experience delays, blockages or resistance because those things are acting like banks of a river… those things are there to help you get into the flow of what you showed up in this life to accomplish. So what’s the big take home Alysa? What are you trying to tell me? Well my dear Mystic, I’m telling you that if you read a post saying that you are changing, leveling up, good vibes are coming your way…. Go ahead and accept that. But if the change you are looking for hasn’t happened just yet and there is still pain or difficulty in your life… it doesn’t mean that you are failing or that your blessings are being withheld because you didn’t catch the latest full moon. Remember that all the energetic shifts in the universe are continuously working in concert to help you and that you are always surrounded by love. Your potential as well as your ability to accomplish, achieve or ARRIVE is not dictated by the stars or the moon, it is simply your personal POWERFUL will that determines the when transformation begins.

You have a shadow self, a darker side of your personality that you feel detached from, an unclaimed self. Often we don't see this side of ourselves in the mirror. Instead the awareness of this cloaked Goddess exists outside of the obvious and lives somewhere within the depths of your instincts. She is only awakened with ferocious need. She unveils her beautiful and terrible face when you need her to carve a new path into the flesh of the Earth. When nothing but dispassionate amputation of old bonds will do. She is maturity, she is arrival. She is the mother of decay, destruction, growth and ultimately inner balance. You have met her. You have eaten your last meal with her more times than you can account for. Lilith brings the unfoldment of feminine empowerment. Her archetype has been literally demonized, her face and purpose distorted, inspiring fear and repulsion. But those feelings my dear are for the uninitiated. Let me tell you a little story about how this powerful energy is one to befriend and embrace She will show you things that you can't unsee, but you will be wiser for your awakening. Lilith is not a heavenly body like a planet or star. Rather, in Astrological terms Lilith represents a point of power like the Nodes of the Moon. Geometrically, Black Moon Lilith is found in the the empty space as a focal point of the Moon's elliptical orbital path around the Earth. As an astrological symbol, Lilith seems to show the unfolding of the ancient archetypal feminine power of creation, growth, stasis, decay and destruction. This is a point that is found in everyone natal chart, you don't have to be female to enjoy the company of this energy. The Lilith archetype is associated maturity, with an emphasis on emotional maturity, and is activated when you are challenged with turbulent feelings like, jealousy and rage which when resolved brings you to a point inner balance and harmony. Black Moon Lilith brings a gift of self-empowerment. Her dark face is revealed to you in moments where you are under the yoke of violent eruptions of destructive anger, intense passion, emotional manipulation and disordered aggression. Lilith can often demand a renunciation of spiritual (or even material) of attachments,in order to create balance with harmonic the South Node of the Moon. So lets look at Lilith in action - Born Farrokh Bulsara 5 September 1946 Freddie Mercury is widely regarded as one of the best singers the rock world has ever known. 2019 brought his and Queens story back to the world stage reminding us of Freddie's theatrical stage persona and his impressive four octave vocal range. Queen's contribution to the music world cannot be overstated, but Freddie has always left a lasting impression on me. I always was fascinated by him. His genius , his creativity and of course his singing. Aside from my fan girling, I was and am also keenly interested in his personal struggles. Freddie was famous in a world that was ready to accept his talent but not his identity. To be bi- sexual or gay in the 70's and early 80's was a dangerous thing on many levels, for some people it meant literal death, and for others it ended families, careers, friendships and was a figurative death that felt as harsh and horrible as the real thing. So hey, lets look at his natal chart says I! FREDDIE BLACK MOON LILITH IN THE 4TH HOUSE For him this placement showed up as upset for his family. Looking at it he may have believed or felt that his family was the problem because he may have felt that his right to express himself was inhibited. However, the truth may have been that he was really running away from his family obligations. To some degree he may have held an expectation that his family members should have rescued him, soothed him or in some way saved him from the problems he was challenged with. He may have felt like family should be comprised of people ready to sooth his pains. I look at his chart and think that perhaps beneath the surface he knew that some aspects of his behavior was upsetting to his loved ones. He may have sometimes felt the desire to change, even though some of what upset his family was well beyond his control. Though Freddie may have at times lashed out at his family and in the same turn felt surprised that they didn't swoop in and save the day. Keep in mind that the fourth house is associated with home and family and even if this sometimes didn't directly affect his family of origin, it would have affected those he looked upon as family. Think his band mates and even his partners Mary Austin (1970–1976) and later Jim Hutton (1985–1991) What he may not have known that Lilith's Black Moon's gift was an opportunity to bring sub / unconscious or self-defeating behavior into the light of day where it could no longer exert its destructive force. n other words, the reactions his behavior would cause were cue's for him to take a look in the mirror and do some self examination, admit fault when it was his and do better. Not easy. Also he may have done better to find a more diplomatic way to express his true self as a career musician as well as the need for acceptance of his personal life. Also super not easy. Can't say I would have done better even knowing what I know. Also worth looking at was the sign Lilith occupied in Freddie's Natal Chart. THE BLACK MOON IN SAGITTARIUS It's not terribly surprising to see this placement. From looking at his chart, I can see that it's very much his tendency to throw himself into new ventures that he would have determined to be exhilarating physically, emotionally or mentally. For some people this can be a positive trait if the person can show some self-restraint and consider those around them. However, as it is with the Black Moon in the Sign of Sagittarius, it would indicate that Freddie would have been somewhat reckless in pursuit of his vision. It would be like tying a wagon to a lighting bolt and asking any occupants to just hang on. If you could talk to some of the people closest to Mr. Mercury they might laugh and nod if they compared this description with the man they knew. Freddie may not have always been aware of just how enthusiastic his nature was. At times he may have been an unconscious bully. His excitement and determination to see his vision brought to fruition could have surpassed his maturity. This is where the darker side of his nature would have been activated. Those shadow characteristics that he may have known to exist and that there was a need to address, but he may have preferred to ignore. Perhaps justifying his bullying has determination or his cold ambition as persistent determination. With this placement Lilith also offers her Black Moon gift is the opportunity to recognize the need to temper his enthusiasm, and to give others the freedom to express their own passion. Allowing other people to offer their insights or even creative expressions. Had he lived long enough there is no doubt in my mind that her would have made an effective teacher or leader. Perhaps even using his unique perspective and experiences to the world to benefit humanity. After all you don't get a four octave range and the charisma of Freddie Mercury for no good reason. Even though his life was shorter than most would agree was fair, he did bring millions and generations much joy and inspiration. Looking at him from afar as a fan, I will always love the sound of his voice belting out "Can anybody find meeeeeee .... somebody toooooo loooOOooOOovveeee." Though some people may not have been satisfied with the Biopic Rhapsody, feeling that some aspects of Mercuries life were watered down or over looked, I can't help but feel a wee bit closer to performers I love. So I say good job. Plus it was interesting to get a peek at a light that shined so bright you could never really get close enough to it. So, I'll say this much - Freddie Mercury had more musical talent in his little finger than I have in my entire body. But, as the universe will have it, he had his struggles too and Lilith shows us the truth in that statement. I'm never unsatisfied by the clarity that astrology can provide. Showing us our greatest strengths as well as our biggest handicaps. If you are interested in learning about where Dark Moon Lilith is placed, order a chart, I'll be happy to show you how you can accept her gifts. Thanks for reading! Until next time, xoxoxox Love Alysa Alysa is a Spiritual Systems Analyst - She loves to use all of her Virgo / Aquarius fueled superpowers as an astrologer, veteran tarot reader, reiki master and mystic. She hates referring to herself in the third person... but figures it's what everyone else seems to do so hey, why not. Alysa works from from her Hillsburgh Ontario office, teaching and treating those who need help and healing. She is a huge fan of all things mystical that open the mind and closes down fear. Oh and she has been known to collect large amounts of crystals, tarot cards and books... and comic books. Basically, she is trying to be a grown up while also being a useful human being. To book a reading, consult or to order a chart or register for a class - click here!

Ok, I honestly can't tolerate another "WOOOOOO Mercury goes Retrograde, hide under your covers cause all your shit is gonna break and everything's gonna go wrong and you're gonna cry!" Mercury Retrograde is here to ruin your life and make everything difficult and horrible and you should be afraid. It's seriously gonna make me barf. The simple truth is this - Retrogrades are kind of a pain in the ass. They tend to cause delays, and reversals sometimes and they do bring us back to start a lot. I personally have a few retrograde stories that are super crappy... you know the kind of story where 5 things go wrong in the span of an hour and you're shaking your fist at the sky yelling damn you... damn you Mercury!! (or Venus, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune or Pluto... cause Jupiter isn't that big of a jerk.) Retrograde energy is notorious for ramming perspective down your throat like a plunger solving a bathroom clog situation. Nice picture huh. But, here's the thing - it doesn't have to be so bad, it really doesn't. Similar to a bully that beats the crap out of other kids for their lunch money (this is a no bullying zone btw) even the bad guy has a back story that you can learn from. If you understand why he is doing the heinous shit he is doing you can choose to approach dealing with him in a better way. So, since we are at the beginning of another 3 glorious weeks of misunderstandings, delays, tech communications, and the like, I thought I would offer you my dear friend some advice from the perspective of an astrologer - and fellow Mercurial mishap sufferer. Retrograde Re-do's Re-read - If you have anything you must sign, or an important notice, or article, take time to re-read things. If you can get someone you trust to take a read through to make sure you haven't missed any points. If you don't have anything you need to double take... maybe just re-read a good book. Re-charge - Aside from the obvious, recharging your devices, recharge YOU. Seriously, take a day off social media. A day away could be just the thing you need! You know how sometimes you read somebodies post and you're like WTF is to me? This is one of those golden opportunities to step back and just let things simmer down. Named for the messenger of the Gods, Mercury rules all form of communication, and sometimes communication can get a bit muddled to say the least. So, just go ahead and assume that while Mercury is drunk wobbling, somethings said could simply be a misunderstanding... so just walk away. Re-assess - this kinda goes along with the re-read thing. But, you can take a more broad stroke approach to really rake in the advantages of retrograde energy. What's cool about taking time to reassess where you are through looking back at where you were is always helpful. If you haven't made forward progress, then re-assess and look for the reason why. If you have made strides toward your goals, re-assess if where you want to go is still on the right track. Re-Visit - Ok this one can be a little tough, there is nothing less fun than having to re-visit old wounds, rifts or difficulties. For real, it sucks picking at scabs, especially if you are still healing from something painful. However, there is a eloquence to reviewing ( another RE!) things from the past. When you use some retrospective when looking at something... even traumatic somethings, you might be surprised at the new things that come to light. Some times you have had just enough distance from an event that you're feelings about it don't swallow you whole. You can look at the what was from the perspective of what is and see things you may have missed or misunderstood. It can be very enlightening. Just go with someone who will hold your hand, it's ok to ask for help. Retrograde Re-don'ts Re-act - Overreact that is. It's sooo, sooo, soooo tempting to lose your shit when everything is going wrong. Let's be honest, when everything is breaking, lost and you're going to be late it feels mighty nice to blow off some steam by yelling or cussing out the nearest scapegoat for you're impotent retrograde inspired rage! I'm in favor of a good venting. Just remember that not everyone wants to be on your war path. Sometimes what would normally be - like no big deal - will often times feel magnified because, well dammit, it's all happening one thing on top of the next. My advice... see things as they are not as you think they should be. Remember, sometimes you can't see the reason for all the crap, but trust me there is always one and it always works to your highest good. Regret - This might sound a little naive or even trite to say, especially after I just recommended that you revisit issues from your past. None the less the whole point of revisiting is to heal the wounds and sometimes recovery comes from releasing regrets. Especially over things we couldn't control, or even some of the things we could. The funny thing about regret is it kind of feels good... bad and good really. Because when we have a regret it implies that we actually cared. Regret is a feeling that is best buds with guilt and remorse. They pack around together like girls going to the bathroom at the club. Here's the thing the perceived pay off of regret (proof you cared) is actually no pay off at all. It's real identity is debt. You will never not have feelings about things that didn't go the way you had pictured, just don't let regret be one of them. Instead, insert a new emotion in regrets place... it's called trust. Trust in the fact that whatever you have gone through is part of your beautiful evolution. It might seem weird to say this if you are still dealing with heavy shit, but I promise Trust will move you forward where regret can keep you stuck. Regurgitate - another negatively spun Mercury retrograde fear inducing article or meme. It's fun, but do you really need something else to make you feel worried? Instead, look for ways to share ways to support others with understanding and helpful tips for thriving! Reverse - Go against the grain... oh yeah, I said it! for everything to go the way you would prefer, try going in the opposite direction of what your reflexes tell you to do. Example: Your S.O. says something stupid and insensitive, you want to retaliate with a comeback that will have all the power to disintegrate them where they stand... think Thanos and the Gauntlet... in this moment, you should try to take a different route. Even if they deserve and epic tongue lashing, maybe throw them for a loop and call them on their mistake mindfully. Ask them why they would say or do something so hurtful, oh and yes use the word hurtful. Keep your tone calm and your demeanor relaxed and open and watch their jaw hit the floor. Side note... if you're normally someone who is calm no matter what. Stay calm, but ask the other person for what you need instead of marinating in silent comebacks and hurt. As you can see there is more than one way to turn the tables on less than optimal energy. Thanks for reading! I hope this was helpful to you <3 xoxox Alysa Alysa is a Spiritual Systems Analyst - She loves to use all of her Virgo / Aquarius fueled superpowers as an astrologer, veteran tarot reader, reiki master and mystic. She hates referring to herself in the third person... but figures it's what everyone else seems to do so hey, why not. Alysa lives in Ontario, Canada with her family where she works from from her Hillsburgh office, teaching and treating those who need help and healing. Alysa is a huge fan of all things mystical that open the mind and closes down fear. Oh and she has been known to collect large amounts of crystals, tarot cards and books... and comic books. Basically, she is trying to be a grown up while also being a useful human being. Alysa provides readings for people all over the world with astonishing accuracy and heart centered communication. She is known for her great sense of humor and intelligent approach to her work.Her clients lover her because she knows when to be delicate and when to tell it like it is. A reading with Alysa is an experience that keeps people coming back.

Two things can’t occupy the same space, We know this to be true as it concerns physics. We recognize this fact when we try to rearrange a room or when we run out of counter space in the kitchen. But have you ever considered that two desires cannot occupy the same energetic space? Here’s the concept. You find yourself desiring something yet not attaining it. Even though you are doing everything you can think of to make it happen you still have nothing in hand. You probably will take a step back and ask yourself or even those around you what you might be doing wrong. Let’s use an example… I love examples, it makes things easier to understand. Let’s say you’ve started a business. You have done all the market analysis, you know your ideal customer demographic and you have even mastered the art of writing killer copy for your marketing campaigns. You’ve been at it for several months and by all the prescribed advice you are doing everything perfectly and yet, you are coming up zero’s. Logic dictates that you should look at everything you’ve done and look for the chinks in your armor, the gaps in your playbook seeking out all of the possible reasons you are failing to meet the mark. Let’s say you even go a step further and you consult experts and they confirm you’re doing everything right. Even they can’t find fault in your formula. I’d like to invite to you to consider the one place you may not have thought to check - your core belief structures. Now I’m gonna get all coachy on you. Here’s the thing about core beliefs, energy, the law of attraction and getting what you want. If there is a core belief in your heart floating that says you can’t do something or don’t deserve something then guess what darlin’ – you will receive what you are asking for in direct proportion to your belief and your belief will affect the efficacy of your efforts. To break that down a little better; If you have a belief somewhere in you that is convinced that you are undeserving of something or that you don't qualify, or that you're not the kind of person who can have or do a certain things because you're too old, too female or male, too young, too inexperienced or you are lacking something in some way - then the act of self sabotage is in some ways operating on autopilot. Here's the AH- HA moment - Before anything becomes solidified into matter it is first a thought or an idea. Thoughts and ideas come from the higher self; or the part of us that is connected with the divine. And so, one could say those thoughts are energy forms that originate from a higher vibratory frequency, or from the light of the Divine. If our human thoughts are dominated by fear or negative thoughts and energy then we are sending out an energetic signal that says I don't have this or I can't possibly do that, therefore according to the law of attraction you will receive exactly what it is you focus on. What has your primary point of focus is the thing that will grow. Take for example the sun and the sunflower. The sunflower focuses all of its attention on receiving the sun, It's leaves, petals and face all point toward the sun in effort to collect as much of the sun’s light as it can. If the sunflower pointed it’s leaves and its petals and its face toward the ground it would not gather as much sun as when it has its optimal solar collection parts pointed in the right direction. When it comes to manifesting what we want in our lives you have to think of your attention/point of focus Our attention works exactly the same way. What ever has you attention is the thing that will grow the most. This is why people who practice L.O.A. recommend using methods like a vision board, focus wheel and surrounding yourself with things that remind you and keep you focused on the object of your hearts desire. When you use methods like any of the aforementioned what you are creating is an internal environment that is conducive to receiving that which you desire. So when you are thinking of something you want, don’t focus on the fact that you don't have it. In other words when you think of the thing you want do not allow your mind to wander and attach thought energy on how bad you feel because you don't have it right now. So let's practice how you can shift your thinking to the path you prefer. Use a tool or method to keep yourself aligned and focused on attainment Check your baggage - try and understand why you feel what you feel. Think of the thing coming in the mail - As you most likely know, snail mail is painfully slow, In Spite of this crappy fact it does not negatively color your anticipation. You don't worry about not having the thing, you know it's coming so you are able to relax and focus on things you can directly affect. Do things that instill you with feelings of worthiness. Remind yourself to focus on what you do want every time you start feeling bad about not having something. Get active! Keep doing things that help what you want to come to you. If you want a job… you gotta put out the resumes! I hope this helps you to create more and more of what you want. The more you are able to clearly understand where your focus is going the better you will be able to redirect your attention! Happy manifesting :D